Even darkness must pass. A new day will come

Thats wat Friends are for.

It is really hard to point out a friend's mistake for many will be displease about it especially if u remind them in a curt manner. Often a quarrel ensues after it but upon reflection your friend should be able to understand what u have done. True friends will not shy away to help corrects friends' behaviour. However when telling them their mistake a friend should be mindful of the circumstances.

One of the taboos about pointing out a friend mistake is to do it in in public. What u did will embarrass them. No one likes to be embarrass and because of this even if he know he is at fault, he will surely try to refute whatever u say. It is best to remind them of their wrong doings privately. Like what my father says " A true friend points out your mistake and prevent you from repeating it. Sometimes what he said might not be to your liking but that is the truth. Accept it and become a better person. Such friends are truly the ones u should treasure."

Just to add on, I feel that true friends are people who stick to their values, even if you disagree with these values. They are still better than people who are shifty. Shify ppl cant be trusted for shit.

Maybe I shouldnt have gone that far but I did that because I still regard you as my friend if not I wont even give a fuck.

~Nil Sine Labore

posted by the man @ 5:04 PM